Only a few months later I remembered advice colleague from the beginning of the story. That is what

When I female colleagues announced almost wedding, followed by various tips regarding cohabitation. These are mostly women who have children of my age and at least 30 years of marriage behind. Then I just nodded, not dismissive but not accepting the well-intentioned advice. It simply did not matter, I thought - all will be well.
At first we really did not matter. I expected some things imply and did not put a lot of patience or time in what disturbed me. If I asked him to take out the trash and he did not do so immediately, or at least for half an hour (and had already forgotten), I would do that with anger alone and days nagged him about it. If I ask him to do something and he does just run poorly or too slow, I stood aside and waited to finish so that I improved. The result was a quarrel, crime scene and his refusal to help me later in the same thing because, as I say, he does not know.
Only a few months later I remembered advice colleague from the beginning of the story. That is what I suggested. One is told that her husband intake house only superficially but she does not say anything to him but when he is not there, fix it. And it's easier than all suck, at least some time. Beautifully told me that he would never complain about what you do, whatever you did for the second time will not want to. And she was right.
Over time I've learned to accept that my man is not perfect, and neither am. I find comfort in that at least he wants to help me, how much, though sometimes run out because I have a hundred times to remind him of something. If it does not remind you shall not do. Forget it, at least so he says.
A second colleague I was also given advice which I remember every day. "Do not let him think that it helps when doing something in the house or in connection with the kids. These are your children and your house and everything he does, do not you than you. "It was just like always, I try to avoid statements like:" Can you vacuumed the house, can you pick up the cobwebs, etc. ". Once flown so much to say but correcting it, so that it clearly say that, actually, I do not need to suck up the house than us.
With this I wanted to convey to you some of my experiences. It's not easy to set up in this way, especially when I fuss and he with 'one foot to but eventually learn. He recently took the vessels of machines and little is put into place. I did not give them irritating because if I had complained, he would say: "Well I do not know" and the second would take it pulled. If it does not, it learns, so do not give up on their help (if you are a little bit reluctant) just because they do not know as we do.
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